Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger's

I found this book through Amazon's "Customers Who Bought This Item Also Bought" and my interest was peeked when I read that he's the brother of Augusten Burroughs. I personally enjoyed this book more than Running with Scissors. I like looking into the mind of someone that thinks differently. I'm a slow reader, but I read through this on a 5 day vacation because I had a hard time putting it down.


Thank you John for sharing your story with us. I hope you have more to share in the future.

I WAS DISAPPOINTED IN THIS BOOK. I HAVE A NEPHEW WHO HAS ASPERGER'S SYNDROME. I WAS LOOKING FOR THINGS THAT WOULD HELP ME TO HELP HIM. THE BOOK SEEMED A BIT LIKE "RUNNING WITH SCISSORS".

This book is a reassuring recounting of John's turbulent growth through Aspbergers. He does an amazing job of identifying the difference in his perceptions and how he was able to alter them over time. John shows incredible insight as he reveals what caused him problems and shows typical Aspergish integrity in his life.
I got this book for my son,hoping it might affirm what I have been saying. It affirmed that this is not a defect,shame has no part of life with Aspberger syndrome,he will find his way and it does not need to be by some formula of "normalcy"

As many other reviewers have said, this is a good read and an entertaining picture of what it's like to see the world through the author's eyes. But he also makes some very important points about Asperger's, namely:

1. Aspies are socially inept because they lack innate abilities that we take for granted: how to pick up on behavioral cues, empathy, etc.

2. They're not sociopaths; they're interested in other people and want to join in social activities, but they don't instinctively know how to behave in those situations and often say or do exactly the wrong thing.

3. Because they're logical and intelligent, Aspies can be taught the appropriate social behavior. Robison figured it out for himself in late childhood, and from then on he was able to make friends, but having some guidance at an early age would have spared him years of frustration.

I read the book because I suspected that a young man of my acquaintance is an Aspie -- and, after reading it, I'm sure he is. Unfortunately, his family seems convinced that he's hopelessly "weird" and "antisocial" and doomed to a life on the margins of society. I plan to recommend the book to his relatives, because I'm sure that if he's diagnosed and trained, he'll be able to lead a full, productive life.

As the mother of a 19-year old daughter with AS (first diagnosed by a neurologist at the age of 5), I read this book with mixed emotions. AS is becoming better recognized as a disorder distinct from "traditional" autism, but the mental suffering of those who are truly high-functioning, including my daughter, at the hands of the ignorant, children and adults alike, is still pervasive.

I am particularly concerned about Robison's self-description as a savant. That and genius in a "normal" person are somewhat different things. This, and the fact that he cannot comprehend the very complex logic that drives humor, are, I think, rather telling. Most autistic savants have one or two special abilities that may manifest themselves in multiple ways. But these abilities tend to be concrete and non-symbolic rather than more usual left hemisphere skills that are more logical and symbolic. Those with AS tend to use both hemispheres more-or-less equally, while "normal" people are largely left-brained.

This author may well have AS (as opposed to "true" high-functioning autism), but I am not convinced. This does not make his memoir any less important, but in my opinion, his disorder as he himself describes it does not seem to be a typical model of AS, nor would I see him as particularly high-functioning. His self-description lacks insight, and therefore makes it misleading. In particular, his misunderstanding of savant skills and misreading of such things as body language and social communication are more autistic than AS. Persons with AS may have such difficulties, but they are also more likely to simply exhibit literalism and anxiety with regard to change than Robison seems to do, and to be more aware of their disabilities from an early age.

Those readers who may see AS in themselves or others based on mere observation after reading this book would be well advised to delve further into the subject before participating in the creation of the next "flavor of the month".