How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

This book is a "must have" for everyone. It teaches you (quickly & easily) how to incorporate new ways of speaking to not only children, but anyone with grace, courtesy and respect AND have them respond in a positive way with almost immediate changes in their behavior. This book has improved my relationship with my children and husband better than classes, therapy or anything else I've read or tried.

I purchased this CD, because my wife and I struggle with getting our 4-year old son to hear what we say and act on it.

Adele was very realistic and conveyed a fair amount of personal struggle with the topic, which significantly increased her credibility with us. Her book boils down to developing habits that enable parents and kids to follow the golden rule. It has made us more aware of the habits we want to form.

I thought the male speakers voice was a bit hokey and over-dramatic, but the re-enactments struck a chord with my son. He actively listens with us and asks questions about them, which was really cool. That made the purchase worth it.

I heard about this book from my mom. She had used it when I was a kid. Her brother Joe gave it to her after he had used it with his son. You don't need to be a parent to love this book! I am a young guy. I don't have kids, but I love this book. These ideas and concepts can be adapted to any situation, with any person of any age. It's very interesting, easy to grasp, and is a quick read. After reading this book and applying what you've learned, communicating with EVERYONE in your life should definitely improve.

I cannot say enough good about this book. For someone who loves practicality in topics on parenting this is amazing stuff. I especially love all the practical examples and exact scenarios and real conversations that are written out. You can clearly see how two styles of conversations compare and know exactly how to apply what is being taught! I never knew that how you word things can make such a difference but the proof is in the pudding, as they say...Enjoying the Ride

Excellent, practical guide for parenting children. Also, could help improve your communication skills and style with your spouse and friends/family in general. Reasonable middle ground for parenting children in a compassionate manner (as opposed to the authoritarian style or the overly child-centered attachment style).