The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It

Personally i think this book offers great advice for all married women whether or not they think their husbands will cheat on them. Neuman focuses on giving women suggestions on ways to prevent their husbands from being unfaithful. This book is well written and i believe that it can really be beneficial to strengthen ones marriage.

When people are asked why men cheat, most automatically think it is sexual dissatisfaction and never really think there may be other issues. M.Gary Neuman went to the source and approached men who previously cheated on their wives and interviewed them. I really believe that he offers wives numerous beneficial tips that not only can help prevent their husbands from cheating but even make their marriage stronger. Neuman is not telling wives to blame themselves but rather to take action and make an effort to strengthen their marriages through appreciation and support. The reality is that our lives are hectic and often we have so many responsibilities we forget to work on what is of the utmost importance, our marriages and family life. This book was well written and offers great advice.

Book Review: The Truth About Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do To Prevent It

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Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Relationship

The Number One Reason Why Men Cheat


What's the issue? Fidelity. Period.

It's what almost every woman wants and is definitely a fundamental issue between a husband and a wife. Unfortunately, infidelity is a major problem in our society. Who's at fault? And can infidelity be prevented?

Author M. Gary Neuman, a family counselor is the creator of 2 x 2 Intensive--an innovative approach to couples therapy. Conducting a study of 200 husbands, he interviewed 100 physical cheaters and 100 faithful non-cheaters. His findings found that the number one reason why men cheat is "emotional dissatisfaction" (48%)--participants cited lack of appreciativeness, feeling unwanted, or being stuck in a "no-win situation." Neuman also noted:M. Gary Neuman, M.S., LMHC

* 8% of cheating husbands mentioned sexual dissatisfaction as a reason
* 11% cited lack of communication
* 10% said my wife and I no longer share the same values
* 12% said my wife often loses her temper

Infidelity clues include your husband spending more time away from home (55%), infrequent sex (34%), lack of personal contact (cell phone call) (29%), criticism from him rises (25%), increased fights initiated by him (20%). Another hint offered by Neuman, most cheating occurs with friends, not one-night stands.

A book which will empower women, The Truth About Cheating offers advice from the author on cheating prevention. The book includes practical strategies for married women that will prevent infidelity and foster a faithful marriage.


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This is not a helpful book for women. In addition, it was poorly written. Coming from an Oprah celebrity, I was surprised it had such a condescending tone. Personally, I am tired of hearing that women aren't making enough of an effort in their marriages.

I would not suggest any betrayed wife purchase this book unless she wants to punish herself and take the blame for another adult's lack of self control, dishonesty and disloyalty.

Saving marriages thus families & children is Gary Neuman's inspiration for writing this important book and I applaud him. His compassionate, non-judgmental, and solution-oriented approach is exactly what we need to keep our marriages solid!

Thank you Gary!!